Questions: My boyfriend and I sometimes role-play when we have sex. I’m all for it, but lately, I’ve been bothered because he always wants to pretend that I’m younger than I am (nothing demented, but a legal teenager). Does this mean he has a thing for younger women and will eventually think I’m too old?
Answer: Look, part of the excitement of role-playing is that you’re being someone else- otherwise, it would be called you playing. It’s perfectly normal and healthy to fantasize in the bedroom, so there’s nothing wrong with your guy digging the barely legal routine.
The problem is, you’re supposed to be enjoying it as much as he is, and right now, it sounds like playing the part of Vicky the Virgin is damaging your self-confidence. So be proactive and switch it up. Next time you two decide you’re in the mood for some acting, tell him it’d make you really hot if you could play a more mature role. How about a predatory MILF? Or a teacher seducing her male pupil who’s desperate for an A? (Gosh, I love that one.) Maybe it’s the age/ power sexual dynamics your boyfriend loves and not teenage girls.
If he still won’t relent, you need to remind him that he’s dating you, not Hannah Montana. Don’t judge him; instead, talk about the complex it’s starting to give you. With any luck, he’ll act like an adult about it – by allowing you to do the same.
Credit:ivythesis.typepad.com
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