Five Reasons Why Women Cheat
Woman…woman…woman…
She is very transparent yet so delicate. You see her beauty outside yet you have no idea how fragile she is until the time you get to touch her.
A woman is very similar to a flower. A flower blooms and a flower withers. It stands so long but when it’s tested by storms, it drops off. A woman is never different to that. She lingers through the test of time but, there will be a time that when it’s time, she leaves.
A woman is full of strength. She may look fragile in the eyes of the many because she looks petite, slender, or just because of the fact that she’s a woman. But, she has a strong heart and it’s hard for that heart to be tattered. But, when it could not stand anymore, it gives up.
Most women who leave their partners for another man confess that they did that because they are not treated like partners or even just mere humans. They feel abused by their partners. Others feel the abuse more distinctly emotionally. Although the others did not experience becoming a wife or a partner who is being hit anywhere in the body or being forced to do something that they are not willing to do for their partners, they still feel the pain because much more than being slapped in the face, it is more painful to feel unappreciated and neglected.
Most of the women were bound to be left at home to do the chores and look after her kids’ safety and welfare. Even then, their efforts are often taken for granted by their husbands and take those deeds as their contribution for the relationship. Women need some appreciation. Although they know that it is their responsibility to be doing all those stuffs, they still need to be appreciated, or if not, just be noticed.
Like men, women are also humans who fall into temptation and lure. I had known a neighbor of ours once who had been into this kind of bait. When she had a vow with her husband during their marriage, she had sworn to herself than she is going to love no other but her one and only husband. She swore to remain faithful to him in front of God until the day they die. But, she never thought that every piece of their marriage would contribute to the sin that she promised she’d never commit.
She had always been at home since the day they were married. She married him at the age of 19 when he was 21. Since they had a child 7 months after their marriage, she never had a chance to enjoy their husband-and-wife relationship. The woman always stays at home to watch out for their child until another came after two years and another child came 3 years after the other. They had three for several years in their marriage. But, they never had a chance to have some time together because the husband is busy with his job which pays him only a small amount of money. He does a lot of overtime duties because he wants to increase his monthly compensation. He comes home late at night and, as their kids grew up, he forgot to consider his relationship with his wife. He only took in his responsibility as a father to support his kids’ needs for their schooling and other family expenses, and leaves everything left to his wife. The wife was never reluctant, she never complains, she’s willing to give all she has in order to fill in the needs of her children. She never also thought that she is no longer happy being with her husband until the time when an unmarried man came into her life. He is her friend’s cousin so, she gave him the benefit to lease him an empty room in their house. Of course, it has the blessing of his husband. He even said, “it’s better that we could benefit something out of that old room”. She never thought that she would end up feeling the way she did to the guy when she first laid eyes to her husband. The feeling had long been gone, and it was haunting. She stopped herself and pretended to be the usual. But, the bait is just too much to handle. She ended up leaving her children to his husband, running away with his new man.
A woman has the strength to carry on, but through time, she weakens and since no one except her own self makes her feel that there is something wrong going on, she was able to really fall off.
She had long been gone. And since, there came a man who made her feel a woman again, she gave herself the right to explore once more. She is wrong. But, she should’ve never been. But, she saw that no one looks out for her and she didn’t feel her existence even to herself, she let a man make her feel new again.
In the end, however, the woman came back to her husband, pleading for forgiveness which he selflessly gave. Their children, one grown-up considered her as dead, and the others were oblivious of her existence in their lives again. She may have come back, alive and whole again, but the pieces were gone, and it’s always the hardest to sew a shredded cloth.
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